Can't feel it, like a nosebleed but the awareness is there

I've officially reached a plateau in my life. It feels like a nightmare. Twenty years should mark the time in any young adults life where living at home with parents is ILLEGAL. There should be a fucking law stating that at 20, an individual should be an independent fucking adult and needs to start sustaining themselves. Self-taught responsibilities are invaluable. There are people out there, I know, that are feeling my same frustration. Of course everyone's different but me, for instance, I cannot function without some structured disorder in my life. If that makes any sense...losing it